Speaking of personal experiences, my ex-husband was addicted to Internet porn. Although he promised me he would stop, I didn’t trust him and used a service (see the link above) to find out just how many pornographic sites he was visiting and the report I got from the service revealed he was going to sex-related chat rooms… which to me is 1/2 step away from cheating! Yada yada yada, six months, two shouting matches and one restraining order later I filed for divorce.

So much for the contention but somehow that porn is a “victimless” vice.

Ok – let’s just take the word addiction out of there . . let’s just call it sex & porn compulsion . . . whatever people want to call it is fine. But the fact is that more and more people are having major problems with it, it is affecting so many people and their families and these people TRULY need help.

And yes, you are absolutely right . . . my hubby’s behaviors are his fault and it sucked! He chose to make the awful choices that he made . . .he is an addict! But he is also a good man and capable of recovery!!! We are now on the road to recovery and to be honest, we are happier than we have been in a long time. It’s a long and tough road . . . but there is hope!

I’m telling my story on my blog . . . check it out! http://mishkawifeofsexaddict.blogspot.com/